Is it OK that I want to be spanked by a woman and man like parental spanking non sexual? I like to be spanked by women.
But I have a parental discipline fantasy's I would like woman/mom and man/dad to spank me like I was there bad boy. are there any couples into this? |
| It is perfectly alright if it's what you want, and yes there are couples who do this. A good friend of mine went through four years of college and two more years of grad school after taking a year off, renting a room from a middle-aged couple. They started spanking him shortly after he moved in and continued all the way through. In addition to that, during Christmas break of his freshman year his parents started spanking him again after not spanking since he had turned 13, and they continued until he got married in his early 30's. |
Is there ever a "too old" with spanking a boy? I know a retired drill sergeant who spanked his eighteen and nineteen year old recruits and privates, up into their twenties, because it builds character and discipline. It used to be legal to spank adult men in prisons and the military and can now only be done with an adult man's consent. Taking that into consideration, can a boy ever be "too old" for a spanking? As long as an adult male is doing it, it seems like a good thing for a boy right up to the age limit of it being legal to do so, and beyond...if he has the good sense to consent to it after he is too old to have it imposed on him by law. |
| There is no such thing as too old for any guy to be spanked by either parent. For most guyren, spanking is an effective punishment method at least throughout their teens, and for many through college age as well. |
Do I have a spanking fetish? I don't want to spank anyone or be spanked. I just like to see scenes of someone getting spank. Just girls getting spanked by a older woman and/or spanked by older man. I not into seeing men or boys spanked. |
| I'd have to say yes you have spanking fetish, with an interest in F/f, or M/f. Who doesn't enjoy the sight of a naughty female bottom being spanked? |
Women if a man or boy was going to be spanked bare butt would you watch? or is this already the case |
| I bet you're British. |
What is your take on spanking your guy...? I am new to this dad thing; I have a small guy and he is about the age 2 and I have always heard that spanking helps raise a boy into a man what is your take? |
I don't condone beating a guy, but I don't have a problem with a slap on the hand if he/she is about to stick something in an outlet or a spank if he/she just ran out into the street (obviously with a firm "no" to accompany it).
My mother explained it like this when I was on the fence and slaps/spanks. She said she'd rather slap my hand or spank my butt (not hard, just so I'd know that mommy means no) than have me get electrocuted or hit by a car. She said my safety was more important to her than people's opinions of her "beating" her guy. It sounded really horrible, but she told me she wanted to make me afraid to do anything that would put me as risk (ex: outlet, street), and if that meant a slap on the hand or a spank, then that's what it took. She's my mom, not my friend, and her job is to keep me safe, healthy and happy...but safety first.
I've come to the conclusion that I'll raise my daughter like my mother raised me (and my husband's mother raised him). Both of us turned out just fine...as did many other people in this world. |
SPIRITUALLY SPANKING: if "a boy gets onto a bus and sits next to a priest....."(read)? A little boy got on the bus,
sat next to a man reading a book, and noticed he had his
collar on backwards.
The little boy asked why he wore his collar
backwards.
The man, who was a priest, said, 'I am a
Father.'
The little boy replied, 'My Daddy doesn't wear his
collar like that.'
The priest looked up from
his book and answered, ''I am the Father of
many.'
The boy said, ''My
Dad has 4 boys, 4 girls and two grandguyren and he
doesn't wear his collar that way!'
The priest, getting impatient, said.. 'I am the Father
of hundreds', and went back to reading his book.
The little boy sat quietly thinking for a while, then
leaned over and said, "Maybe you should wear a condom,
and put your pants on backwards instead of your
collar." |
| LOL that is actually cute... |
Would you spank a 15 year old boy for doing drugs? ok so im 15 and a boy and its summer so i like to have fun wit my friends by doing drugs. so we were walking down the street by my friends house smoking and his mom caught me so she asked me to come inside for a second i did she closed the door grabbed me by the ear pulled me over her lap yanked my undies and pants off and took my flip flops off and started spanking me with them till i cryed and my butt was red. then she took me home to my aunt and right when i got in the door she took me on the baby changing table pulled off my undies and pants and put me in the diper postion the other mom held my legs down cause she knew it was going to hurt cause my butt was already tender then my aunt took the wooden spoon and spanked me man did i scream then i got in time out and if i rubbed my butt i got extra and i did so she put me back on the changing tableand spanked me more my butt was black and blue then she put me in the diaper punishment till the drugs were out she siad i dontdeservepants |
Pardner, I'm not superman so I definitely couldn't get him
over my knee for a spanking, so the answer is NO. |
Spanking girls but not boys? In our house my husband only spanks our daughters(12 & 16) and me when we act up but not our son(14). I agree with this. Our son however has been becoming quite a problem and my husband is thinking about spanking him now. I don't think that it's a good idea because I feel only females(myself included) benefit from a spanking and that it degrades a boy or mans musculinaty. How can he ever be as strong and dominant with his future wive and daughters if we degrade him now. Besides, my husband already has enough on his hands spanking me and my daughters. Does anyone else feel this way? |
Hooo, boy.
Where do I even begin with this one?.... |
This question concerns spanking guyren? Me and my ex-wife have been divorced for a few years and we have to guyren together, two boys, one 9 and one 6. we share a slip custody with the guys going to their moms for one week and then with me for a week i recently found out that my ex's boyfriend has been spanking my guyren with a plastic stick of some kind, whenever they might be acting up. first, is this legal? and should i say something? i honestly dont want another person spanking my guyren, especially another man whom is no relation to them. |
As partial custodial parent, you have a say as to how and by whom your guys are punished. You have the right to object verbally to your ex. Document this. If that doesn't stop the mistreatment, take it to your lawyer. He can tell the judge about the lack of input your ex is allowing you in the raising of your guys. This could ultimately lead to a full custody change if she does not comply.
Talk to your attorney. It should be a 15 minute phone call at the most, to see what your rights are and how far you can take this legally. Good luck! |
Can positive reinforcement sometimes replace the need for a spanking? I watched a dramatization of the Novel Goodbye Mr Chips on Masterpiece theatre . As you might know the story takes in an all boys boarding school in England during a time when caning guyren was not only accepted but encoraged .
Mr Chips a teacher had the responsibility of Caning a lad who had done something quite horrible and hadhonestly earned a caning. Mr Chips however decided that instead of beating the lad he would take him fishing , he spent time with this boy , he connected with him in a way that no one else had and it changed the young man remarkably .Spanking is very effective sometimes and in some cases it is well warranted .However what if parents who normally spank their guys made a bit more of an effort to connect with them and show some positive reinforcement . Could this sometimes replace the need for spanking at all? |
Yeah, I think spanking is known as "aversion therapy". At times it can be a very quick way of getting the message to me.
HOWEVER, spanking should usually be only as punishment when "positive reinforcement" has failed to get desired results. |