Is a more mature lover better than a lover of the same age? Personally, I'm more attracted to women of a certain age. A real woman knows what she wants, and is willing to voice her needs.
Maybe, as a 'younger man', I just need instruction! ;-) |
| I personally prefers men who are slightly older (5 - 12 years). I've also dated guys my age, 1 or 2 years older / younger, i just don't feel that connected with guys my age. ;) |
When a mature lady takes a young lover? Should she start him of gently or should she throw him in at the deep end |
| Kitty sweetheart, this is no place to pick up young men OK, go look somewhere else honey, that's a good old girl! |
Mature Woman finds her first young lover ? I am a divorecd mom of three boys in her early 40's and is only recently that I have found I have a thing for younger guys. I had dated guys in their 20's with jjst the odd kiss and feel etc, but it was last year that I fully experienced the stamina and graciousness of a teenager. We were friends to begin with, but one day deveeloped from having a kiss to full oral sex in the car one afternoon to dating for three months. Though he moved due to his first job, i still think of him as a watershed ...Please visit my blog:
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| Maybe its kind of a mid life crisis deal. You want to prove to yourself you can still keep up with the younger generation? |
Did I approach my ex-lover in a mature manner? Should I stop thinking about her? Hi it's been a year and a half since I've had anything going on with my ex-lover. We began just being friends with benefits. At first I was not all into her. But as we started messing around more and hanging out I fell for her. I was 19 at the time and she was 39. Now I am 21 and she is 41. We had our summer thing for 3 months a couple of summers ago. She did tell me straight up it was just friendship and nothing more. Then why did she keep calling me that summer to come over her house. The last time we've ever fooled around was when we had a threesome. After that she never called again...but I called her. I know they fooled around again bc she told me. We even went to the bar and she made out with me after that. Then after that we went to Ihop and she was holding my hand. Then around Christmas I told her to send me her address so I can send her a Christmas gift and she never texted me. It's been over a year and I think of her everyday. Why did she stop contacting me. |
| Sorry honey, but she was using you. You were a fun ego boost for her. You have a long life ahead of you. Try to move on and find someone your own age. Someone who will care about you, not just themself. |
How would a mature person react to cheating as opposed to an immature person? and another question:
How would a mature person react to a situation where there lover is making them jealous (unintentionally or intentionally) if they were to simply just talk to their partner what would they say? |
| An immature person would be selfish and all about how the jealousy effects them personally. A mature person would discuss and understand the issue from both sides and understand the situation before making a decision or request. |
My marriage is crumbling down and blame my lover? I mean, if he had not *** between my husband and I, everything would be great. My husband is good man, so I don't understand how can my lover do this to him. It's ALL my lovers fault. What should I do?
Mature answers, please. |
| see, I kinda like it when my wife's lover's *** is between us. |
For mature:does size really matter to your lover? does size really matter to you ,for boys what do you think ,and girl what do you like more or if it is very important for you to get satisfied |
| well obviously it's important for me to get satisfied...what kinda question is that? what's the point of sex if you're not satisfied? and yes the size of my mans penis does matter. I'm sorry fellas, but if it's not gonna fill me up, I'm not gonna feel anything, and it sucks. it's not just how you use it. the people who say that are most likely virgins and have no idea. however I'm not gonna break up with them because it's small. |
How would you act towards a shady ex-lover if you ran into him/her again? Mature answers only please!? My ex-lover really hurt me by playing with my head. I know we had an agreement that we would never have anything serious. But when we were seeing each other it seemed like she was my gf she called me everyday, stayed on the phone for hours, went out together sometimes, I spent the night with her, it just seemed like we had something. Then I guess after she got what she wanted from me she started ignoring me all of the sudden after 3 months of seeing each other all the time. She stopped calling and contacting me all at once. I even asked her what her address was so I could send her a Christmas gift and she never responded. It's been over a year since she's ignored me. If I ever run into her again what should I do? How do I impress her? I do not want to seem like I still want her. I just don't want her to feel like she's gotten to me. |
| get over it move on ................. ll |
Edward or Jacob? Ice or Fire? Mature or Guyish? WHO IS YOUR LOVER???? Okay, so me and my friends have this bet. my friends and i r kinda divided. there's team jacob consisting of like, 2 people (HAHAHA) and team edward consisting of every one else. so at lunch time, we bicker about who Bella will choose. (i know, we r geeks and we love it!) so i need YOU! yes you, to help out your favorite team. Are you a hardcore fan of Edward or maybe a die hard fan of Jacob. Maybe you would prefer Bella snuggling up to some who is warm, or maybe you could picture that image better if she was holding some one cold. Does Bella need a mature role model to keep her safe 247 or do you think she needs to take a trip on the wild side? We'll be waiting for your answers! Personally, I prefer Edward. No pressure or anything.......
I'll be waiting!
~Lola the cat |
Edward for sure!! He is so right for Bella and they both truly love each other. Jacob's love for Bella to me seems just like a guyish crush...well not crush..but I don't think it's love. They're just really close. But its completely obvious that Edward is in love with her, and he's even willing to leave her, just to give her another option. He'd also let her be with Jacob if she wanted, but I'm sure if Bella was with Jacob, he wouldn't want her to be with Edward. Also, its not worth Bella liking Jacob because he's going to imprint on someone and its not going to be her so she'd just get her heartbroken if she was with him. She should stay with Edward because that's where she truly belongs...he changed her life.
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Is this young pervert lover having a bad influence on my friend? Please mature answers!? My friend is 36, divorced and she has a guy. Half of the time the guy is with his father and she can fool around. She found this younger boy, 27 years old and they are together by a full year already. She said that she knows that she is just a sex partner for him but she doesn’t care. Well, he is gorgeous and a real gentleman in day by day life, I have to agree. But the problem is they all have their weaker spots, and his is the sex life.
From the beginning she was very submissive and he made her play all kind of sex games. I know because she tells me everything (or so I hope). He would make her like walking around in the house for hours naked so he could see her and touch her whenever and wherever he wanted, or making her touching herself in front of him. They even played “gynaecological games”.
Later she told me laughing that he is turning her into a lesbian. He kept trying to convince her to have sex with another woman and they ended having an affaire with a young student. She told me that she has even going down on that girl because he asked her to.
Now they have a 40 years old female lover that is single and bisexual. From time to time they meet, and when they meet they sleep, eat and even bath together. And when she is telling me about is like “he made us wash each other in the shower and than make love in the kitchen while he watched. It was so fun!”.
Well, when you tell the story in several words it seem crazy, but it all happen in an year.
My guess is that he messed up her mind. What should I do? Should I try getting her in the real world or should I leave her alone? |
Neither of these two are guyren, even if you refer to him as a boy.
Unless he's guynapped her, she is a willing partner. If you consider him a pervert, then she is as well. It takes two to tango.
She's not necessarily who you thought she was, at least not in her sexual life. And this is okay, since it's none of your business, really. It's just that now you know her deep dark secrets, and you find them troubling. So rather than attribute them to her, you project them onto the man.
This isn't a relationship I could have, but then it's not me so it's fine.
He didn't mess up her mind. And you don't have anything to do. I doubt this relationship will last, but it's between two consenting adults. Butt out. |